When my daughter was born, the day she came home from the hospital, I started a journal for her. I opened up a Word Document and every day I wrote how much I loved her. I told her what she was doing every day that brought me joy, happiness, frustration, pain, love and triumph. She humbled me, brought me to my knees, lifted me so high with love for her that sometimes my heart felt like bursting. My firstborn, she became my whole world.
She’s now 4, and I haven’t written in that journal for almost two years. Oh, every once in a while I added a few paragraphs, trying to catch up. But after the first 18 months, when I was pregnant with my son, it stopped being an almost daily capture of events. I photographed her so often, and when my son was born I took to portraiture more seriously, that the words gave way to images. But the images often missed the little things.
Three recent tragic losses in my immediate family made me realize that I haven’t paid enough attention to the little things about her that amaze me every day. Portraits aren’t enough. It’s the simple little things she does, the essence of her, that make me fall in love with her daily.
So at a recent trip to the zoo, a day we decided we needed to reconnect as a family, I handed my son’s stroller over to Baba and I took my girl’s hand and I spent the whole day with her. Just being with her. I took pictures of her not for portraiture, but to capture the minute by minuteness of being the amazing little thing she is. Here are some of the images from that day. The simple things about my daughter that break my heart and fill it, all at once.
Dear Ladybug, it’s been so long since I’ve written to you! I have taken thousands of pictures of you, sung you a thousand songs, told you a billion times how much I love you. I remember how I used to write down all the simple things you do that amaze me.Now that you’re growing in a big girl, so many things you do make me so proud to be your mother.
Like the way you take your little brother by the hand, and show him things. He looks up to you. He wants to do everything you do.

The way you love your Baba and he adores you melts me. He likes to tease you and call you the Poopy Princess, and you get so mad but you’re laughing at the same time.

You still have the most incredible dark eyes. So brown they look black.

No day to the zoo would be complete without ice cream! You couldn’t care less about most snacks, but ice cream is always on your mind!

Funny faces? Yup! You got em! You insisted on stopping here, to “take a little rest”. I think you just liked the idea of sitting on the ropes!

My little ladybug, you may sing like a warbling grasshopper but you can DANCE and make music! Like your Grammy, you love to sing, dance and anything to do with music brings you joy.

I love your curiosity, and how you ask questions. Nothing escapes you. You’re full of “whys?” and “hows?” and you want to know everything. And everything you learn, you teach your brother.

Can we talk about your sense of adventure, and how you’re not afraid of anything? Wouldn’t it be nice to keep you in a bubble, to keep you safe? Maybe not as a zoo exhibit, but this idea is interesting….

“Would I put on the 3D glasses and take the opportunity to make more funny faces? Yes please!”

Baba always tells you that you’re the coolest kid, ever. A long, lean, long haired fighting machine who walks on her tip toes. We say it’s because you were conceived in Romania, and you took in a little bit of the mystery and spark from that beautiful place.


You want to try everything! I think you might end up being like your Auntie, she’s the one who has to ride the roller coaster ten times before she can leave the park. Maybe it means you’ll be a world traveler like your parents. Right now, such childlike wonder in you makes me fear for you at the same time it makes me admire your free spirit.

Have I mentioned the funny faces?

We spent the whole day together, and as always you take my breath away. I see in you the past, the future, my heart, your soul. And a sweet little girl who at the end of the present day, just wants to eat her cotton candy and curl up on the couch with her mum and talk about everything we saw together.

I hope you enjoyed this month’s The Simple Things! Please visit the next amazing photographer in our group’s circle, Laura at Five Petals.